Letter to the editor

There is so much buzz on TV lately about ‘Respect isn’t given, it has to be earned.’ and You have to demand respect.’ Frankly, that does seem confusing to me.

I would be inclined to expect respect from everyone each time – I know myself. I earned respect. But, I would have trouble respecting most other people (especially in big cities) – they haven’t earned my respect, or have they? How does one sort out about ‘Respect’ if one hasn’t learned about it?

When I was young (a long time ago) we were taught to respect the elder. They have worked hard for many years and some invented stuff, all to make our lives easier.

We were also taught to respect:

-Our parents – they were our stewards and counselors to guide us to become good citizens. They didn’t “own” us. We were not buddies.

-The police force – they were there to help us.

-The teachers – they expanded our horizons and opened our minds.

-The farmers – they worked long hours, even in rain and heat, to provide us with food.

-The store owners – they gave us the freedom to pick and choose a variety of stuff. May it be from a preferred vendor or from an exotic place?

-The neighbor – we knew not to trespass and vandalize. We wouldn’t like it being done to us.

-Us – we expected to be respected when we did our chores, did the best in school and helped other people.

Since living in Kimball I have met many great people who share the same values I cherish from my childhood. I feel comfortable living here! I like it when you wave at me driving by. It makes me feel like part of your community when joining or starting a conversation at The Diner, the stores or the park.

When you remember my name it tells me you care. When you give me a hug because I said something dumb, it makes me feel okay again. Everyday, little things are a token of respect. It’s all of you who make Kimball’s community a great place to live.

Monika Heille, Kimball.